Hi Evan, I am a 34 year old woman living in Canada. My first and only boyfriend six years ago pretended to be committed to me, used me for sex because he wanted to be with a virgin, and then he dumped me one month after taking my virginity. As […]
Month: November 2008
Did You Know That You Can Make Other People More Fun and Interesting by Asking Them More Fun and Interesting Questions?
Did you know that you can make other people more fun and interesting by asking them more fun and interesting questions? What are some of the most interesting or fun questions you’ve asked that have elicited successful responses? What are some of the most interesting or fun questions you’ve received […]
Do you rely on people to write to you online? Or are you more pro-active about making contact? Do you have greater success by making the first contact or by waiting for potential matches to make the first contact? What do you think of winks and icebreakers? Do you ever […]
I dated online from 1997 until 2006. I went on over 300 dates in that time. How long have you been looking for love online? During that time, on how many different websites have you had profiles posted? How many matches have led to first dates? How many matches have […]
As someone who has been an online dating coach since 2003, I’d venture to guess that I’ve not only seen more usernames than just about anyone on the planet, but I’ve written more of them as well. Why do I think that usernames make a difference, when everyone knows that […]
Have You Ever Spied on Someone to See if They’re Still Using the Site When You Think You’re Starting to Get Serious?
Have you ever spied on someone to see if they’re still using the site when you think you’re starting to get serious? How did you feel when you saw that they were “active within 24 hours”? Did you confront/question your partner about their recent activity on the site or remain […]
Would you rather spend 20 minutes on the phone discovering your date’s a loser? Or spend 2 hours live to reach the same conclusion? Share some of your stories with us about how you found out your date was a loser. And if it was on the first date, are […]
What Percent of People are Open to Dating Someone with Your Age, Height, Weight, Education, Income, and Geographic Location?
What percent of people are open to dating someone with your age, height, weight, education, income, and geographic location? Do any one of these factors seem to have a greater effect than the others? How open are YOU to responding to someone’s profile that doesn’t meet all of your preset […]
Do you find that you’re “better” in “real life” than you are online? If you feel you’re “better” in “real life”, in what ways are you better? What changes, if any, have you made online to try to make up for the discrepancy? To get great tips to make your […]
What was the worst line you’ve ever read in an online dating profile? Exactly how bad was it? Was the rest of this person’s profile equally awful? Share the juicy details below! I’d love to help you avoid those mistakes! For advice that I share with my private dating clients […]
Have you ever lied about anything in your profile? I have. I’m really 5’9?, not 5’10?… Adding an inch or two to their height seems to be a common lie among men. Among women, subtracting a few years from their age is common. What were your dates reactions when they […]
“I am so happy because I met Mr. Right!” To make a long story short, I am so happy because I met Mr. Right. He possessed the 3 important requirements that fit my need: chemistry, compatibility, and emotionally and physically attraction. We are committed and our relationship is going on […]